The Female
This is necessary, that would fill the vacuum left by the your marriage. If you live in another city, calls as needed. Visits, too. First of all attention, especially in the second visit the parents will save you a weekend of cooking. And for parents to meet you, entertain – nice trouble. It is also necessary to remember the dates are important for the parents' birthdays. And even your humble gift in this day and the attention will be more expensive than all gifts ever received by them.
And again, you wife is given a special place in support relationships with parents. You are the main link. On the example of reverent attitude and attention to their parents, your children will take an example from my childhood. In an age when your children create a family, to you is the same attitude. Instruction number 1. Husband should not compare his wife with his mother. My mother is an experienced hostess, and your wife is just beginning. Over time, it will be like your mom, and then surpass it.
How often can one hear the phrase: "And my mom does so, it turns better "This phrase dropped by your ego does hit his wife, and subsequently delivered not once, not twice configures your wife against her mother in law. Negative delayed. You will be better if the two women, whom you love, will be dislike each other?!? Instruction number 2. His wife never cost to talk to her husband that something negative in relation to his mother. The woman he loves, but also loves you. Love to mother a special feeling. This woman gave birth, suckled the breast. His relationship with her longer. He loves you as a woman. Over the years, more and more native to you it will not, but my mother is sacred. You-in-law to become friends. She will teach you and help manage her husband. This is her son, and nobody knows it better than she did. In family life is all. There are arguments, do not run to his mother or friends to share their "misery." You make peace, and your mom will precipitate, that son hurt his daughter. Girlfriends sympathize, but later convicted. This is the female friendship. Can share-in-law. This is her son, and she knows why he behaves. But to speak of the quarrel is not with claims that he is so and-so and treat it as if for help. Nor a mother does not want that to spoil relations with children. And if your mother in law is also a wise woman, then you are lucky twice. She will teach you wisdom and women's tricks. Alas, without these qualities do not get happiness in family life. This wisdom passed down from generation to generation. Maybe you and your mom is closer, but my mother does not know your husband so he knows his mother in law. You must be a like-minded in-law. The involvement of parents of your and your husband – invaluable. Who else but the parents will help you out when you do not have enough money to ZP? Who will teach and tell how to bathe a baby? Who never, under any circumstances, leave in the lurch? Parents need to appreciate and respect and support relations.